Going to Ethiopia 2 times now?!!?

I won't go into great detail about the reasons why, but we just got word today, that Ethiopia has now made the new rule that adoptive parents must show up at court instead of someone representing us there.  This means that parents have to travel 2 times!  I know this is the standard procedure for many countries, but this is brand new for Ethiopia.  We heard rumors of this several weeks ago, and hoped and prayed that it would not be the case.....but as of today, they are saying that if our paperwork has not yet been submitted to the courts in Ethiopia than this rule will apply.  Of course I immediately got on the phone to try to touch base with our case worker to find out if by some chance ours had been submitted, and we just hadn't heard about it yet.  She sadly told me that ours hadn't been submitted and as it is right now, we WILL in fact have to travel twice. 
I have so many thoughts, concerns and questions swarming around in my mind and heart.  The money, the stress of traveling twice, leaving our son behind until we go back again, not being able to take Isaac the first time we go etc.. etc...
God does know all of this and He is absolutely in control....I know this, and I realize that in the end of it all we WILL have our son home with us and we will be a family....but I am praying for peace for all the stresses that this news has brought on.  Our case worker has assured me that we will know more tomorrow.  I am praying that the Ethiopian government will change their minds at least for the parents that are already as far as we are in the process.  Also, I am praying that all the parents that this affects, will continue with the process and not let this discourage them from continuing with the adoption.  This makes it harder to adopt and it already is so overwhelming finacially and emotionally.  
I can't remember where the verse is found at the moment, but it keeps going through my head the past few hours...."Be still and know that I am God".......